Tuesday, May 25, 2010

Why friendship can be broken


Having an serious argument with friends is normal actually.

Here, I have done some research about why friendship can be broken just like that. It is totally awkward when we have friend that living in the same house, same room, always hang out together and suddenly change into something that we don't want.

1. JEALOUSY
It is all about "unhealthy Jealousy". We get jealous when we see our friend prettier, richer, clever than us so we start to hate them so much because of their advantages. But, did we ever think that everyone best in something, but no one best in everything.

2. PROVOKE
When it comes to provoke, there always been third party people in this friendship. This kind of people will stab us and our friend's back by saying something bad about each other and convince us to hate our friend for blind reason.

3. INCOMPATIBLE
This one is common. The first time we know our friend, we thought we can understand each other so much but after a certain times, we realize that we don't actually compatible and have a lot of opposite ideas which can trigger a serious argument. Tips for this situation is yes, we can be friend with them but don't be too close.



4. COMPETITION
Effect of jealousy, we try to compete our friend just because we want always stay on top of the list. This kind of people loves to bring their friend down and sad when their friend better than them.

5. DON'T WANT TO RESPECT OTHER PEOPLE'S FEELING
Some friend like to talk anything they want without considering other people feeling. Just be careful.

6. SPEND MORE TIME WITH OTHER PEOPLE
Especially for people that already have a boyfriend/girlfriend. They forgot they also have friend to be with, and used to be there for them. Don't ever try to find your friend only if you get into trouble.


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