Wednesday, August 3, 2011

How to deal with backstabbers


Here, I will share you some tips on how to control your emotional and be professional when you have to deal with backstabbers.

1. Don't bother too much and don't be too emotional. Never show your sadness in front of them because that is the thing that they always wanted from you, being sad just to make them happy. So, try to don't give a fuck about those bastards.




2. Be careful with who you sharing your secret because not all friends even the most closes one will care about us and good in keeping secret. Who knows, maybe some people need a topic to gossip. If you need someone to talk to, choose it carefully. The most unwanted people is people who talk too much about other people's life. You can judge them by their mouth.

3. If you really good in sarcasm, you can talk loudly in front of them in sarcastic way. Never care about their feelings. They can hurt you, and you can too! No forgiveness because they never learn anything from that. If you done nothing, they will assume that's okay for the to treat you that way.

4. If you like straight to the point, just go in front of them and ask them what is their problem that make they like to talk about you in every their discussions. I'm not suggest you to do this but you can do that if you want. I prefer you, try to humiliate them in front of all people so all will know that got one of group people who like to talk so much about other people's life.

5. Last but not least, if they are your friends, you can have slow talk with them and asking what the fuck is going on. Maybe come clean doesn't seem work very well because you know some people dare to talk behind someone back but scare like a bitch when they face to face with us. Stop be friend with them after that, once they talk bad about you, they will never stop until you falling down. Move on, try to find another good people. They don't deserve you.

7 comments:

alinac lover said...

cool!suka

AmirFX said...

Kmk suka polah nomor 3 ya... Lebih appropriate kata orang.. haha..

Siti Arfah said...

Nice sharing. :). Konklusi= Awas dlm bicara kita. Diam itu lbih baik. Byk ckp,byk dosa. Hepy2 dan sntiasa brsikp positif. Hdup pst lbih bhagia. :)

iyka syafika said...

setuju dengan entry nie..ihihihi

zulhilmi.tempoyak said...

sori. tekata sket ritu..;p

Norhazwanita Mohd Nor said...

Mohon share...

Norhazwanita Mohd Nor said...

Mohon share...